Coming in to Win Your Heart
- Hayley Cossey - Healing To Become

- May 28
- 2 min read
A message from Spirit ✨💚
“Second Chance”
“It’s Never Too Late”
“New Possibilities” 🌙🔥
Sometimes the universe speaks softly… and sometimes it speaks directly.
It is time to let go and release what has been blocking you and keeping you stuck. 💚
We are creating a safe space for your heart to begin fully opening again. ✨

You now understand that a lot of what happened between you came from me projecting my insecurities onto you. We both had to learn to love ourselves separately before we could truly come back into union and love each other properly. ❤️
We’ve both learned lessons. We’ve both grown. 🌿
We’re getting to know ourselves better so we can communicate more honestly about what we need from each other. We are already different people from who we were when we parted ways. The changes are being felt within us both. 🔥
I want you to know that I always saw you. I just didn’t want to admit how deeply I felt for you because I was scared to fully open my heart. I knew you had the ability to truly hurt me, but by pushing you away and closing my heart off, I ended up hurting myself anyway. 💔
I couldn’t handle the intensity of what I felt for you because I had never felt anything like it before. I’m sorry for the ways I hurt you. I never wanted to. You got caught up in my chaos because chaos was what felt familiar to me. In a strange way, it felt safe.
I wasn’t used to someone challenging me, saying no, or standing their ground. It brought feelings to the surface that I didn’t know how to process in a healthy way, so I reacted with anger instead.
Yes, I wanted control, but it was never about controlling you. The truth is, you reflected back to me all the qualities I admired and wished I had within myself, and that frightened me because I didn’t know how to become that version of myself yet. 🪞
So I ran. I chose situations where I could stay the same because with you, I knew I would have to grow, and at the time, I didn’t know how.
But with time, distance, and reflection, I’ve realised something important: I wanted to become a better man — not only for myself, but for the man you truly deserve. 🙏
Now I want to give you all of me. No walls. No barriers. Just raw honesty, open communication, and vulnerability so we can build a life where our love flows freely and unapologetically between us. 🤍
I don’t just want to stand beside you in the good times. I want to be there on the hard days too — to show you that I can be a safe space for you as well. 🫶🏼
I am choosing you.
I’m choosing you today and every day after because you are the person I want to be with. ❤️🔥
I’m trusting what’s unfolding, trusting what’s healing, and trusting what love is teaching me. ✨
It’s always been you.
It just took me a while to realise it ❤️




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